If you have read to these lines then you've
already done a substantial part of the conscious work on improving your love
life, which 98% of people never do. Now you have a tremendous knowledge that
may be of great help not only to you but to many of your friends as well as to
your nearest and dearest. But you have to start from yourself. Start changing
your personal value system, your own life goals and priorities. Start changing
the lifestyle and introducing new activities and habits. Start taking
responsibility for your life and your relationship.
By changing yourself you will definitely
change your relationship. By changing your relationship you will surely change
yourself. Love life is one of the most important spheres of life for everyone.
Therefore, it is important to put efforts, thoughts and emotions into its
development. In the world of nature, every living thing lives while it grows.
Some of you have a good handicap on your road to success but some have a long
way of thousands of miles ahead. But as famous businessman Richard Branson
says, "Itís just a matter of scale, but first you have to believe you can
make it happen."
In conclusion, I want to present to your
attention a parable composed by my friend Michael Subboch. It's called
"The metaphor about a tree."
"The relationship between a man and a
woman is like a tree: the seed is given to us by Mother Nature but what will
happen after we plant them strongly depends on the person.
Just when the tree begins to grow his
fragile hands-branches are very vulnerable and the trunk-spine can be broken
even by a slight breeze... Therefore, one must take care of it with great love
and patience and always give it his/her time and help.
In order to take a proper care for the
little tree you have to understand what it needs. For that purpose you can
collect the information about trees, talk to it in the evenings, and when it
gets convinced in your sincerity it will itself help you, try its best not to
disappoint you and share its successes gladdening your ears.
Like all the other living things blossom
from love and care, this tree will eventually start to please you not only by
the grace of its shapes, green color of leaves or fragrance of flowers but by
juicy and delicious fruit as well. You will be able feel how pleasant it is to
eat them and become proud of yourself and your achievements.
However, there are gardeners who enjoy
using various pesticides in hopes to speed up the process of growth. Well, the
apples turn out to look beautiful... but bitter. These chemicals spoil the
natural and unique taste of ripe fruit. The tree will grow but its fruit are
unlikely to suit your taste. They will be nutritious and good enough but it
wonít be the burst of taste that you will feel if you grow the tree with love,
intelligence and hard work. You see, when your tree has grown up it hides you
from the rain or storm, it will serve you as material for new things, or you
can have great pleasure to rest and work in the shade of its beautiful crown,
enjoying peace and happiness, comfort and coziness, love and care, which will
be given to you by his strong, skilled, gentle hands-branches...
The tree grows in your heart, there are its roots..."